August 10, 2009

In Memory of Bella - July '00-July '09

There's a children's book by Cynthia Rylant named Cat Heaven, that I found in a bookstore over 10 years ago. I had an extremely deep passion for cats at the time and the book brought me to tears. I thought of this book today while thinking of our recently departed cat, Bella.

When my parents first moved to Cordova, my sister Carrie came up for the first time during the summer of 2000. She worked at one of the grocery stores in town and a friend of a friend, that she worked with, had a kitten and couldn't keep her. One look at the kitten and Carrie promptly claimed her and brought her home. Carrie named her Bella. I don't know who started the nickname, but someone came up with Bella Che Paco. I'm not sure exactly what it's supposed to translate to, but this is what I came up with on my own (in Spanish)... Bella = beautiful, Che = hey, and Paco = cop. I think whoever came up with it, probably just liked the way it sounded.

I asked Carrie what she remembered about Bella from when she was a kitten. She referred to Bella as being a parrot kitty at times. Bella would perch on her shoulder a lot and also liked to sleep next to her shoulder. Carrie tells me that Bella had an interesting meow that sounded like a wookie call. I didn't realize it until just now, but I know exactly what meow she's talking about! She remembered that Bella also liked to sit on one of the chairs at the dining room table during dinner time. She never begged for food, she just liked sitting with everyone. One of her other favorite spots was the computer desk chair. She really disliked it when anyone would give her the boot, and even when someone was practically sitting on top of her, she still didn't move voluntarily.

Bella seemed to prefer men over women. Darius has never cared for cats, as he's more of a dog lover. He's even allergic to most cats, but for some reason Bella never bothered him. He really liked Bella, and she liked him too. Anytime he was sitting, she'd often seek his lap over anyone else. Bella was also attached to James before he moved away. I think she spent a good deal of time hanging out in his room.

When we moved here last September, I wondered how Bella and the boys would interact. I wasn't sure how much tolerance she would have for Ben and Zach, but she did pretty well for an older cat. The boys weren't too fast at chasing her when they started crawling, so Bella didn't go to much trouble to avoid them. When they started walking, she had to speed it up and found it harder to park herself in spots to where they couldn't get her. On the occasions when Bella let them win, the boys were surprisingly gentle with her. They never yanked on her tail, or tugged at her fur. They mostly just liked to touch her a little, and it wasn't their actions that scared her off, but their squeals. I can't say that I blame her. They hurt my ears with some of the noises they make.

I think Bella's lasting impression on me will be butter. I'll never look at another stick of butter without thinking of her. Anytime butter was left uncovered on the counter, it was only a matter of time before Bella would get to it. Her tongue left a distinct pattern on a stick of butter, and it would make you stop and think twice before buttering your bread!

Despite Bella's small frame underneath her gnarly thick coat, she was one tough Alaska cat! She spent a good amount of time outdoors, and was able to hold her own amongst stray dogs, crows, ravens, eagles, bears, and whatever else came her way.

Bella was a good cat. We miss her...Mom does too, even though she doesn't like to admit it!

Cat Heaven by Cynthia Rylant

The way to Cat Heaven is a field of sweet grass,
where crickets and butterflies play. A cat may be late getting to
Heaven...there is so much fun on the way!

But an angel will wait at the yellow front door, and
wait till a kitty comes home. And when she arrives, he'll give her a
kiss and some milk in a bowl of her own.

There are trees in Cat Heaven, trees made just for cats,
trees growing so green and so high. But, no one gets stuck in a tree
anymore--if a kitty wants down, she will fly!

And, oh all the toys, kitty toys everywhere, thousands and
thousands go by. There are buttons and baubles and small catnip
leaves all afloat in the sky.

There are angels, of course, with soft angel laps, where kitties can
purr loud and strong. The angels will rub kitties' noses and ears, and
sing them a Cat Heaven song.

And when cats are hungry, there is God's kitchen counter--all
covered with white kitty dishes, full of tuna and salmon and
mounds of sardines and wonderful little pink fishes.

The cats in Cat Heaven are so loved and spoiled, God lets them all
lie on his bed...He walks in his garden with his wonderful Book and
a kitty asleep on his head.

Then when a cat needs to, she may simply ponder and watch the
blue world deep and wide....she will watch the old house where she
once lived and wandered, and the people who loved her inside.

All cats love Heaven, they know the way there, they know where
the angel cats fly. They will turn past the stars and the moon and
the sun.....to curl up with God in the sky.

August 8, 2009

Nini & Papaw

Darius' mom (Margaret/Nini) and step dad (Alfred/Papaw) have been here visiting from Louisiana just over a week. We've all enjoyed having them here, and I think it's safe to say they've enjoyed their time here as well. I wondered how Ben & Zach would warm up to them when they first got here. For those of you that know Ben, you know he's very shy around people he doesn't know and has been known to cry if you move in on him too fast. I was so surprised when on the first day of Margaret & Alfred's visit, Ben let his Papaw hold him and carry him around. It was as if Ben & Zach had known them all along.

During their stay I had to fly over to Anchorage to pick up Darius' truck that had been shipped there from Florida. I'm glad that the trip fell when it did, and that Margaret and Alfred were here to help watch the boys. I knew my little men were in good hands, but it was hard to be away from them! I was relieved to hear that the boys did very well while I was gone.

Aside from relaxing at the house and watching the Ben & Zach Show, here are some of the things Margaret & Alfred enjoyed during their stay:
  • Margaret went out on the Sound on a gill netter boat with Mom, James, Brooke, and visiting guests (Jenkins). A long line was dropped and they brought back one Halibut, which everyone enjoyed the following day.

  • Alfred enjoyed reading, and easily cruised through three good sized books.

  • They both enjoyed berry picking around the house, out by the airport, and off Power Creek Road. Margaret used some of Salmon Berries she picked to make several jars of jelly.

  • Over the weekend Mom, Brooke, Alfred, Margaret, and I drove out the road to Child's Glacier. We enjoyed the beautiful weather and watched some good calving activity, while we roasted hot dogs. We roasted some marshmallows afterwards for smores. They were delicious and extra gooey!


  • They also enjoyed some good eating during their stay. We celebrated James & Brooke's 1st wedding anniversary on Aug 3 and Mom's birthday on Aug 7. We had some good meals on those days and probably a few on the days in between! Margaret has several good recipes to take home with her.

Airline travel for those not accustomed to flying, isn't much fun. Especially when it involves standby travel. I'm so happy that Margaret and Alfred made the trip here and had this time with us. Ben & Zach are changing so fast everyday, and it was great their Nini & Papaw where here to see some of those changes. I've never liked the term of calling a spouse's family "in-laws". I just like to think of Margaret and Alfred as family.

Thanks for making the long trip to see us, Margaret & Alfred. We love you!

July 24, 2009

Over the river and through....

...Yakutat, Juneau, Seattle, Portland, Boise, Idaho Falls, a drive south to Brigham City, and to Grandmother's house we went!

Are we there yet?

...not really, Zach's a very good traveler!

My parents had planned a two week trip to Utah, and I'd been debating for months whether to go with them. When my mom was talking with my grandma before their trip, Grandma asked whether I was coming. I had decided I wasn't, but immediately felt guilty knowing I had the opportunity to see her and was passing it up. So, like most of our recent trips, this one was kind of last minute.

Why so many stops along the way to Grandma's? Well, despite the awesome flight perks we enjoy (courtesy of Darius...thanks love!), we're still limited to standby travel. Our "milk run" flight leaving Cordova always has 2 stops before reaching Seattle. From Seattle we were hoping to get to Boise and connect to Idaho Falls, but after checking flight loads I knew chances were slim to none. Portland was our way to get to Boise. From Portland we barely made it on the flight we needed to, enabling us to make our connection from Boise to Idaho Falls. As usual, Connie is good enough to make the drive up to Idaho from Salt Lake to pick us up. James and Brooke were also at the airport to meet us, and we had lunch with them before heading down to Brigham.

Zach with his Great Grandma. This alone was worth the trip!

I opted for just one week in Utah instead of two. Unfortunately I think the process of actually getting to Utah sucked up most of my energy and patience, so I think I got things started on the wrong foot. I did enjoy seeing Grandma and the rest of my family, but I'm so glad to be home now! Darius wasn't able to come with us, and it was hard to be away from him.

Ben and his cousin Hope, hanging out at Strate's abode.

On Sunday most of the family congregated at Grandma's house in Brigham City, and Dad barbequed some halibut and salmon that we brought with us from home. I was busy being a helicopter mom, so unfortunately I wasn't able to visit with everyone as much as I would have liked. Ben & Zach unknowingly enjoyed wearing out me, their cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents. I counted in my head and I think there were at least a dozen of us that pushed the boys around in a play car.



Zach loved this car! He must have been it for an hour or more.

The rest of our time in Utah we spent at Carrie & Bobby's home in West Valley. Ahhh....if I must go slightly nuts on "vacation", there's no other place I'd prefer to do it! Thanks for putting up with us Sis!

Carrie & Bobby got a puppy just a couple of days before we got there. His name is Skoog (Carrie, correct my spelling if I'm wrong) and he's a handful, but so adorable! Of course, puppies like to lick, nibble, and jump (sometimes tackle) so Ben & Zach mostly enjoyed his company. They also had fun in the sprinkler, and the mud it made in the garden. Hopefully the chives they trampled made a full recovery.


I was lucky enough to have help on the return trip home. I was expecting to fly solo with the boys, but Joy was able to come back with me. We got off to a good start, but things got pretty hairy at the end. Fortunately we did make it home in a day...and managed to skip Idaho Falls, Boise, Portland, Juneau and Yakutat.

Love you Grandma!

July 12, 2009

Birthday Wishes

With most of my family and friends' birthdays, I'm often late with phone calls and cards. And then there are those that I forget altogether. If you happen to be one of the forgotten, please accept my apologies and belated birthday wishes! It was actually my resolution for the new year to be better at remembering birthdays, and to try and get cards sent to everyone. I'm slowly getting better, but I have much room for improvement.

My good friend Evelyn celebrated her birthday yesterday. Happy Birthday again Evelyn! I hope you enjoyed your party with your family and friends! Wish I could have been there to celebrate with you!

Naturally my card for Evelyn has yet to be mailed, but I'm pleased I actually got the right date this year and that I remembered to call. I put Zach and Ben to 'work' today making pictures to send with her card. They love it anytime I hand over crayons or markers (non toxic of course since they mostly chew on them). Evelyn, I hope you enjoy their pictures as much as they enjoyed making them. Love you!

Spider Webs

In between the posts of the railing, on our back deck, there are dozens of spider webs. They aren't very noticeable unless you look at them closeup. However, when it rains or there's a lot of morning dew, they clearly stand out. I've been waiting for damp morning to take some photos of them.